A shout out to Parents
Where is the full stop to what you can do for your child? Why do we give so much of ourselves to our children That it becomes difficult to take back. Why do we spread ourselves so thin for them That it is imperative we will snap. Why do rally so much for them be ours That they scramble to run? Why do we feel we have to do everything right with them? That wrong becomes an impossible burden to bear. Why do we fall in love with the parents we become And fall out of love with ourselves. Why do we own their actions, their mistakes That we fill with a guilt that is not ours. Why can't we let parenthood breathe, bend, bewitch and bellow? Accept that a parent needs space to experiment, Parenthood needs time to explore and understand, For a license to make mistakes, let us demand. Why can't we let parenthood live, learn, relearn and relive? Critically examine the ancient art of parenting passed through generations, Forcefully question the new science that we learn through lessons,